机会

心中的负荷远远超重了， 披加上无情岁月的流逝与吹惨；

已让心灰意冷的灵魂，在心寒的日子里，

添上薄薄而透明的冰霜，把其心封锁在孤独与无情当中。

杀那间的突来的机会。。仿佛就像迟来的礼物， 又由如黑夜里的风中蜡烛；

让人杀那间惊喜交加，另一方面又摸不着头，也看不透。没人知晓它会在何时何日在次出现以眼前；

或突然急消失以漆黑当中。。

也没人知道，这样的机会。。是否获得大家的认同肯定与祝福。

机会。。这两个字。。

是天意的造化，命运的纠缠，缘份的纠葛，还是人类的安排？

机会。。仿佛一个永远都有在等待的感觉。。

谁又晓得是否在下一秒机会出现了， 然后在另一个下一秒，

又突然消失以无踪。

兴奋？ 不安？ 期待？胡思？ 错过。。。懊悔！！

机会不是每个人都有。。特别是第二次。。。

把握不到的机会，只能眼睁睁看着它溜走，也只能暗然伤心与无助；

把握到的机会时，往往在同一时间里头，又同样的也会失去另一个机会。。。

但以为能把握的机会，原来也是需要看对方是否愿意给于这样的

一次机会！

活着让你好好爱我！！！

这是一个真实的故事……一天一个男孩送给他的女朋友一台汉显传呼机，温柔的对她说：'我以后再也不怕找不到你了。'女孩调皮的说：'如果我离开这座城市，你就呼不到我了。'男孩得意的摇摇头：'我可是办了漫游的，无论你走到哪里我都会呼到你'  
      
女孩问他的传呼号是什么，男孩说：'这是爱情专线，号码不公开。'从此女孩每天都把它带在身边，一刻也不离开。在一个阳光明媚，让人有一份好的不得了的心情的周末，女孩只留了一张字条给父母，坐上汽车奔向邻近的县城游玩，但是没有人知道女孩正走向一场灾难。  
      
 女孩县城玩了一天，拖着沉沉的脚步找到一间带淋浴的小旅馆。一走进房间，女孩迫不及待的走进浴室，想洗去一身的疲惫。当女孩正准备脱衣服的时候，脚下一阵晃动，她急忙扶住一根铁管，心想错觉吗？但是当第二次晃动，女孩知道这不是错觉。  
跟 随第二次的晃动中还带有急促和沉闷的断裂声，女孩的全身开始颤栗，她知道可怕的地震来了，随着第三第四次的更加猛烈的震动，无边的黑暗和无边的恐惧把女孩 紧紧的包裹起来女孩象一只受伤的野兽，拼命的放声号叫，拼命的拍打、撕咬浴室的门板。然而一切都是徒劳，女孩无力的蜷缩在阴凉冷漠的地上。  
      
不知过了多久，忽然腰间一阵颤动，是呼机。女孩匆匆的摘下它，在黑暗中摸索着按到了键子，即看到了绿色的光芒：'林先生请你七点钟到老地方见面。'读着这句话，女孩的泪水又一次涌出来，滑过嘴角。咸咸涩涩的。想着电话那边的他，女孩又再一次尝试着走出困境，但是是再一次的徒劳与绝望。女孩跌坐在地上，把自己缩成一团，眼睛盯着呼机的屏幕。  
      
不知过了多久，女孩睡着了，又不知过了多久，呼机再一次在女孩的手中颤动了：'林先生问你在哪里，请速回电话。'女孩再一次的流下眼泪，我想告诉你我在哪里，但是我办不到啊。渐渐的女孩平静了下来，面对无法挽回的死亡，女孩不知道自己还能做什么。  
    
   呼机第三次震动：'去了你家，看到你留下的字条，请火速回家。'女孩的心又开始躁动。呼机第四震动：'我听到广播，知道你那里发生了什么，相信你此时正拿着呼机读我的话，我们很快会见面的。'似乎有一缕曙光在女孩的眼前闪过。女孩期待呼机第五次的震动，此时的呼机成了他生命唯一的寄托。  
     
  时间一分一秒的过去了，呼机象一个疲惫的孩子一样睡着了。终于第五次的震动来了：'我去找你，车不通，想尽各种办法，还是无功而返。我相信你不会出问题的，你是一个聪明又好运的女孩。我等待你的归来！'第六次，第七次。。。。女孩在男孩一次又一次的传呼中度过了一个又一个恐惧与绝望的时刻，不知不觉已经两天两夜了。  
      
死 亡的阴影越来越紧的箍住女孩的全身，仿佛看到自己体内的鲜血和肌肉正被一条黑色的巨蛇一口一口贪婪的吞噬。女孩觉得自己快不行了，连哭泣的力量都没有了， 她的思想开始混乱，感觉自己正在往下沉，就在沉到底的时候，呼机第三十八次，也许第四十八次，五十八次震动起来，那震动象磁铁一样，牢牢的吸住了女孩体内 残余的所有能量：'我们什么时候结婚？举行哪些仪式？从现在开始我们分别设想一下，日后评出最佳方案。'  
      
结婚，婚礼，实在是太诱人了，女孩陷入了遐想之中。海底婚礼，象鱼一样自由自在穿梭在海洋世界；跳伞婚礼，与白云并肩飞在空中……女孩再一次振作起来，是啊，人生那么美好，又有多少美好的人生的等着我呢。第六十次，第六十一次。  
      
……男孩一次又一次的向女孩传呼，一次又一次的给女孩注入生命的活力；一次又一次的把女孩的生存信念从崩溃的边缘拉回来…… 
      
度过了漫长的四个昼夜，女孩获救了。当他看到男孩惨白的脸，火一样的眼睛，一下子明白了世间最为珍贵的就是爱。女孩在担架上轻轻的拉着男孩的手，柔柔的说：'我是你今生的新娘'。  
              
我活着是让你好好爱我！！！

What Love means to a 4 - 8 year old

A group of professional people posed this question to a group of 4 to 8 year-olds, 'What does love mean?'

The answers they got were broader and deeper than anyone could have imagined See what you think:

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'When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore.
So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love.'

Rebecca- age 8

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'When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.
You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.'

Billy - age 4

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'Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other.'

Karl - age 5

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'Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs.'

Chrissy - age 6

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'Love is what makes you smile when you're tired.'

Terri - age 4

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'Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK.'

Danny - age 7

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'Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more.
My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss'

Emily - age 8

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'Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.'

Bobby - age 7 (Wow!)

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'If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate,'

Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)

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'Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday.'

Noelle - age 7

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'Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.'

Tommy - age 6

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'During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling.

He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore..'

Cindy - age 8

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'My mommy loves me more than anybody
You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night.'

Clare - age 6

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'Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken.'

Elaine-age 5

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'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford.'

Chris - age 7

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'Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day.'

Mary Ann - age 4

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'I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones.'

Lauren - age 4

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'When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.' (what an image)

Karen - age 7

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'Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross.'

Mark - age 6

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'You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget.'

Jessica - age 8

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And the final one 

The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.

Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there.

When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said,

'Nothing, I just helped him cry'

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When there is nothing left but God, that is when you find out that God is all you need. Take 60 seconds and give this a shot! All you do is simply say the following small prayer for the person who sent you this.

Heavenly Father, please bless all my friends in whatever it is that You know they may be needing this day! And may their life be full of Your peace, prosperity and power as he/she seeks to have a closer relationship with You. Amen.
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緣 願和你一起分享

緣      願和你一起分享  從前有個書生，和未婚妻約好在某年某月某日結婚。 後來，未婚妻卻嫁給了別人。 書生受此打擊，一病不起。 家人用盡各種辦法都無能為力，眼看書生奄奄一息 ... 這時，一游方僧人路過，得知情況，願意點化他。 僧人到書生床前，從懷裡摸出一面鏡子叫他看。 書生看到茫茫大海，一名女子一絲不掛躺在海灘上。 一人路過，看一眼，搖搖頭，走了。 又一人路過，將衣服脫下，給女屍蓋上，走了。 再一人路過，挖了個坑，小心翼翼把屍體埋了。 疑惑間，畫面切換.... 書生看到自己的未婚妻，洞房花燭，被她丈夫掀起蓋頭的瞬間... 書生不明所以。 僧人解釋道:  那具海灘上的女屍，就是你未婚妻的前世。 你是第二個路過的人，曾給她一件衣服。她今生和你相戀，只為還你一個情。 但是她最終要報答一生一世的人，是最後那個把她掩埋的人，那人就是她現在的丈夫。 書生大悟，唰地從床上坐起，病癒！ 幾年前，初戀的愛人去世時，我痛不欲生。 有朋友用這故事開導我，讓我釋懷不少。 也許，她來這個世界上，是為了圓我一片情吧。 她做完了她想做的事，就走了。 後來，我都用這個故事開導身邊的朋友。 緣這個東西，是最不可思議的。 電影 '不見不散' 的主題歌這樣唱： '這世界說大就大，說小就小。 就算是我們今生的約定，也要用一生去等待 去尋找 ... ' 緣分這東西不可強求。 該你的，早晚是你的； 不該是你的，怎麼努力，也得不到。 但無論任何時候，我們都不要絕望。 不要放棄自己對真、善、美的追求。 人生的價值，在某種意義上講，就是愛和被愛。 當真愛來臨，就成熟了。 隨緣............ 　隨意........... 　　隨遇......... 　　　隨喜......... 我很在乎你是我的朋友，很珍惜 很珍惜你。 我不常打電話給你... 並不表示... 不想理你， 而是怕吵到忙碌的你。 可是我常常寄不錯的 mail 給你， 代表著每一次緣份傳遞 ， 因為我一直在乎你。 懂得『珍惜、知足、感恩』，就擁有了生命的光彩。 在我內心裡，有著一份感覺  感動與感恩之情。 此時此刻腦海裡出現你的影像， 讓我想要和你一起分享這一篇文章，因為你是我的朋友。

A Brilliant conversation

A VERY  INTERESTING  CONVERSATION An Atheist Professor of Philosophy was speaking to his Class on the Problem Science has with GOD, the ALMIGHTY.  He asked one of his New Christian Students to stand and . . .   Professor :   You are a Christian, aren't you, son ? Student    :   Yes, sir. Professor :    So, you Believe in GOD ? Student    :   Absolutely, sir. Professor :    Is GOD Good ? Student    :    Sure. Professor :    Is GOD ALL - POWERFUL ? Student    :    Yes. Professor :    My Brother died of Cancer even though he Prayed to  GOD to Heal him.                    Most of us would attempt to help others who are ill.                    But GOD didn't. How is this GOD good then? Hmm? (Student was silent ) Professor :   You can't answer, can you ?  Let's start again, Young Fella.                  Is GOD Good? Student    :   Yes. Professor :   Is Satan good ? Student    :   No. Professor :   Where does Satan come from ? Student    :   From . . . GOD . . . Professor :   That's right.  Tell me son, is there evil in this World? Student    :   Yes. Professor :    Evil is everywhere, isn't it ? And GOD did make everything. Correct? Student    :   Yes. Professor :   So who created evil ? (Student did not answer) Professor :   Is there Sickness? Immorality? Hatred? Ugliness?                   All these terrible things exist in the World, don't they? Student    :  Yes, sir. Professor :   So, who Created them ? (Student had no answer) Professor :  Science says you have 5 Senses you use to Identify and Observe the World around you.                  Tell me, son . . . Have you ever Seen GOD? Student    :  No, sir. Professor   :  Tell us if you have ever Heard your GOD? Student    :  No , sir. Professor :   Have you ever Felt your GOD, Tasted your GOD, Smelt your GOD?               Have you ever had any Sensory Perception of GOD for that matter? Student    :   No, sir. I'm afraid I haven't. Professor :   Yet you still Believe in HIM? Student    :  Yes. Professor :   According to Empirical, Testable, Demonstrable Protocol,                  Science says your GOD doesn't exist.  What do you say to that, son? Student    :  Nothing.  I only have my Faith. Professor :  Yes,Faith.  And that is the Problem Science has. Student    :   Professor, is there such a thing as Heat? Professor :   Yes. Student    :   And is there such a thing as Cold? Professor :   Yes. Student   :   No, sir. There isn't. (The Lecture Theatre became very quiet with this turn of events ) Student    :   Sir, you can have Lots of Heat, even More Heat, Superheat, Mega Heat, White Heat,                   a Little Heat or No Heat.                   But we don't have anything called Cold.                   We can hit 458 Degrees below Zero which is No Heat, but we can't go any further after that.                   There is no such thing as Cold.                   Cold is only a Word we use to describe the Absence of Heat.                   We cannot Measure Cold.                   Heat is Energy.                   Cold is Not the Opposite of Heat, sir, just the Absence of it. (There was Pin-Drop Silence in the Lecture Theatre ) Student    :  What about Darkness, Professor? Is there such a thing as Darkness? Professor :  Yes. What is Night if there isn't Darkness? Student    :  You're wrong again, sir.                   Darkness is the Absence of Something                   You can have Low Light,   Normal Light, Bright Light, Flashing Light . . .                   But if you have No Light constantly, you have nothing and its called Darkness, isn't it?                   In reality, Darkness isn't.                   If it is, were you would be able to make Darkness Darker, wouldn't you? Professor :   So what is the point you are making, Young Man ? Student   :   Sir, my point is your Philosophical Premise is flawed. Professor :   Flawed ? Can you explain how? Student    :   Sir, you are working on the Premise of Duality.                   You argue there is Life and then there is Death, a Good GOD and a Bad GOD.                   You are viewing the Concept of GOD as something finite, something we can measure.                   Sir, Science can't even explain a Thought.                          It uses Electricity and Magnetism, but has never seen, much less fully understood either one.                   To view Death as the Opposite of Life is to be ignorant of the fact that                   Death cannot exist as a Substantive Thing.                     Death is Not the Opposite of Life: just the Absence of it                   Now tell me, Professor, do you teach your Students that they evolved from a Monkey? Professor :   If you are referring to the Natural Evolutionary Process, yes, of course, I do. Student    :   Have you ever observed Evolution with your own eyes, sir? (The Professor shook his head with a Smile, beginning to realize where the Argument was going ) Student    :   Since no one has ever observed the Process of Evolution at work and                   Cannot even prove that this Process is an On-Going Endeavor,                   Are you not teaching your Opinion, sir?                   Are you not a Scientist but a Preacher? (The Class was in Uproar ) Student    :  Is there anyone in the Class who has ever seen the Professor's Brain? (The Class broke out into Laughter ) Student    :  Is there anyone here who has ever heard the Professor's Brain, Felt it, touched or Smelt it? . . .                  No one appears to have done so.                    So, according to the Established Rules of Empirical, Stable, Demonstrable Protocol,                 Science says that You have No Brain, sir.                  With all due respect, sir, how do we then Trust your Lectures, sir? (The Room was Silent. The Professor stared at the Student, his face unfathomable) Professor :   I guess you'll have to take them on Faith, son. Student    :  That is it sir . . .  Exactly !                  The Link between Man & GOD is FAITH.                  That is all that Keeps Things Alive and Moving. NB: I believe you have enjoyed the Conversation . . . and if so .. . You'll probably want your Friends / Colleagues to enjoy the same .. . . won't you? Forward them to Increase their Knowledge . . . or FAITH. That student was Albert Einstein.